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3. Nahthdpd; ngw;Nwhupd; tk;r tuyhW

fHj;jUf;Fg; gae;j FLk;gk; 

 kiyg;ghq;fhd a+Njah Njrj;jpYs;s xU fpuhkj;jpd; Gwg; gFjpapy; ehk; te;J epw;fpNwhk;. rpy ahj;jpupfHfs; vUrNykpypUe;J te;J nfhz;bUf;fpwhHfs;. mtHfspy; tajhd xUtiuf; fz;lJk; ,dk; Gupahj xU ftHr;rp ekf;F Vw;gLfpwJ. mtd; Mrhupag;gzpia nra;J Kbj;Jtpl;L tPL Nehf;fpr; nry;Yfpwhd;. rw;W Xa;Tf;Fg; gpwF kPz;Lk; Myaj;jpy; gzp nra;aNtz;Lk;. mtd;jhd; rfupah.

tPL Nehf;fpr; nry;Yk; mtNdhL$l ehKk; ,ize;J nfhs;SNthk;. mtd; tPl;bw;Fr; nrd;W NrHe;Jk;> thUq;fs; vd kupahijNahLk; md;NghLk; tPl;Lj; jiytp mtid cgrupf;fpwhs;. mtd; kidtpia Nehf;fp: vyprngj;J cdf;Fr; rkhjhdk; cz;lhtjhf vd;W tho;j;jp cs;Ns nry;Yfpwhd;. rfupah kpff; fisg;NghL fhzg;gLfpwhd;. ,uT czit ,UtUk; cz;ldH. gpd; n[gpf;f Muk;gpf;fpd;wdH. $He;J ftdpg;Nghkhdhy;> JjpAk; ];Njhj;jpuKk; thdj;jpw;F Neuhf VnwLf;fg;gLtijf; Nfl;Nghk;. me;j tPl;bNy gupRj;j epiy ,Ug;gij czuyhk;. thdj;ijAk;> g+kpiaAk; cz;lhf;fpd Njtdplk; jq;fSila Njtdplk; NgRfpd;wdH. jq;fSila gy Njitfis mtuplk; $Wfpd;wdH. gpd; jq;fSf;F xU Foe;ij (kfd;) Ntz;Lnkd nfQ;rp kd;whLfpd;wdH. tajhd mtHfs; xU Foe;ijf;fhfj;jhdh kd;whLfpd;wdH vd;gij ek;khy; Gupe;J nfhs;sKbatpy;iy. Mdhy; mtHfs; cz;ikapNyNa Foe;ijf;fhfj;jhd; Cf;fkhf n[gk; nra;fpwhHfs;.

 Foe;ij ,y;yhj mtHfs; Mz;ltuplk; Foe;ijf;fhf kd;whLtjpy; vd;d jtW cs;sJ.

 xd;W rhKNty; xd;whk; mjpfhuj;jpy; md;dhs; vd;Dk; ];jpuP jdf;F xU Foe;ij Ntz;Lk; vd;W mOJ jd; ,jaj;ijj; Njtdpd; ghj;jpy; Cw;wp n[gpj;jijf; fhzyhk;. Kw;gpjhf;fspy; xUtuhd <rhf;F (Mjp.25:21) nuNgf;fhSf;fhf Njtdplk; kd;whbdhH. ,tHfSila n[gj;ijf; Nfl;L mtHfsJ tpz;zg;gj;jpw;F Njtd; gjpyspj;jhH. ,tw;iwf; Fwpg;gpl;L rfupahTk; vyprngj;Jk; n[gpf;fpwhHfs; NghYk;. vyprngj; Njtd; NgupYs;s tpRthrj;jpYk;Y ey;elf;ifapYk; rpwe;jts;. Kjy; gpujhd Mrhupadhd MNuhdpd; tk;rj;jpy; Njhd;wpdts;. MfNt MNuhdpd; kidtpahfpa vyprpgh vd;w ngaiunahl;b ,tSf;F vyprngj;J vd;W ngaH Vw;gl;bUf;fyhk; (ahj;.6:23-25). 

vyprngj;J vd;why; thf;Fj;jj;jj;jpd; Njtd; vd;W mHj;jk;. ,ts; me;jg; ngaUf;Nfw;g Mz;ltupd; thf;Fj;jj;jj;jpd;Nky; ek;gpf;if itj;jpUe;jhs;.

ehk; thf;Fj;jj;jj;jpd;Ngupy; ek;gpf;if itj;jpUf;fpNwhkh? thf;Fj;jj;jpd;Nky; ek;gpf;if itg;gJ vt;tsT rpwe;jJ.

 fHj;j;jH gps;isfSf;F mtH mNef thf;Fj;jj;jq;fis itj;Js;shH. mtw;iw tpRthrj;jpd;%yk; ehk; ekf;Fr; nrhe;jkhf;fpf; nfhs;SfpNwhkh?

xU rkak; xU gpurq;fpahH tajhd fpwp];jt mk;kh xUtiu tPl;by; re;jpj;jhH. rpy trdq;fis thrpj;J n[gpg;gjw;fhf mk;%jhl;bapd; NtjGj;jfj;ij vLj;J jpwe;jhH. me;j Ntjhfkj;jpy; mNef ,lq;fspy; (Mq;fpyj;jpy;) T.T. vd;W Fwpg;gpl;L mjd; fPNo jpfjpAk; vOjg;gl;bUe;jJ. ,ijf; fz;l mtH> ,jDila mHj;jk; vd;dntd;W Nfl;lhH. mjw;F mk;%jhl;b: T.T. vd;W Fwpg;gpl;ljpd; mHj;jk; Nrhjpf;fg;gl;L Kaw;rp nra;ag;gl;lJ vd;gjhFk;. rw;W tpsf;fkhfr; nrhd;dhy; guNyhfj;jpd; Njtdhfpa fHj;jH nfhLj;j thf;Fj;jj;jq;fs; vd; tho;tpy; epiwNtwp mtUila thHj;ijfs; cz;ik vd;W ep&gpf;fg;gl;Ltpl;ld vd;W $wpdhHfs;.

 ,t;tpjkhd tpRthr tho;f;if ekf;F cz;lh?

Mrhupag; gzp

 rfupah fHj;jUila ghijapy; ele;jjhy; cj;jkndd;Wk; Fw;wkpy;yhjtndd;Wk; miof;fg;gLfpwhd;. ,td; MNuhdpd; tk;rj;jpy; vl;lhtJk; gpupthd mgpahtpd; top te;jtd; (1.ehsh.24:10). ,tDila ngaupd; Mq;fpy nkhopapyhd mHj;jk; NaNfhthtpdhy; epidT$ug;gl;ltd; vd;gjhFk;. ,J rfupahtpd; tho;tpy; epiwNtwpaJ.

 rpwpJ fhy ,ilntspf;Fg;gpd; kPz;Lk; rfupah Myaj;jpy; J}gq;fhl;Ltjw;fhd tha;g;igg; ngWfpwhd;. Mrhupag; gzpfspy; xd;W jpdKk; fhiyapYk; khiyapYk; gupRj;j jq;f gPlj;jpw;Fj; J}gq; fhl;LtjhFk;. ntz;fy gypgPlj;jpd;kPJ jfdgypfis VnwLf;Fk;NghJ J}gq;fhl;lg;gl Ntz;Lk; (ahj;.30:1-10).

MrhupaHfSf;F J}gq;fhl;Ltjw;fhd jUzk; mtHfs; tho;ehspy; xU jlit khj;jpuNk nfhLf;fg;gLk; vd;W Ntj mwpQH xUtH $WfpwhH. rfupahTf;Fj; J}gq;;fhl;blf; fpilf;Fk; jUzk;  mj;jid mupjhapUe;jJ. rfupahTf;Fj; J}gq; fhl;Lk; tha;g;G fpilj;jJ.

 gupRj;j ];jhdj;jpy; mtDf;F ,lJ Gwkhf jq;fj;jhyhd tpsf;Fj; jz;L itf;fg;gl;bUf;fpwJ. tpsf;Fj; jz;by; Vw;wpitf;fg;gl;bUf;Fk; tpsf;fpypUe;J tUk; xsp gupRj;j ];jyj;ijg; gpufhrpf;fr; nra;fpwJ. mtDf;F tyJ Gwkhf gd;dpuz;L mg;gq;fSs;s Nki[ xd;W ,Uf;fpwJ.

Rfupah nkJthf cs;Ns nrd;W mq;Nf ,Uf;Fk; nghd; gypgPlj;jpd;Kd; te;J epw;fpwhd;. Mq;Nf epd;W nfhz;L gupRj;j Njthjp NjtDf;Fj; J}gq; fhl;Lfpwhd;. Mq;fpUe;J vOk;Gk; ,dpikahd eWkzj;NjhL VnwLf;fg;gLk; Muhjid rpNu\;lkhdjhFk; guNyhfj;jpd; NjtDf;Fj; J}gq;fhl;b Muhjpg;gJ rfupahTf;Ff; fpilj;j ngupa rpyhf;fpak;. ,j;jid rpyhf;fpaj;ijg; ngw;w rfupah fHj;jUf;Fj; J}gq;fhl;b mtiu jd; ,Ujaj;jpy; epidj;J mikjpahf topgLfpwhd;.

 fHj;jiu ek;Kila ,jaj;jpy; epidj;J njhOk;NghJ Vw;gLk; re;Njh\khd mDgtq;fis ehk; ngw;Ws;Nshkh?

 vgpnuaH 7k; mjpfhuk; 25k; trdk; ,NaR fpwp];J Njtdplj;jpy; NrUfpwtHfshfpa ekf;fhf Ntz;Ljy; nra;fpwhH vd;W $WfpwJ. Nahthd; 17k; mjpfhuj;jpy; ,NaR fpwp];Jtpd; gpujhd Mrhupa n[gk; fhzg;gLfpwJ.

 Mifahy; mtUila ehkj;ijj; Jjpf;Fk; cjLfspd; fdpahfpa ];Njhj;jpu gypia mtH %ykha; vg;NghJk; NjtDf;Fr; nrYj;jf;flNthk; (vgp.13:15).

NjtJ}jd; re;jpj;jy;

Njthyaj;jpw;F ntspNa kf;fs; rfupahtpd; tUiff;fhf fhj;Jf; nfhz;Nl n[gpj;Jf; nfhz;bUf;fpwhHfs;. cs;Ns epw;fpw rfupahtpd; ,jak; fHj;jupd; gpurd;dj;jhy; epiwe;jpUf;fpwJ.

jpBnud gPlj;jpd; tyJ gf;fj;jpy; xU NjtJ}jd; epw;gijf; fz;L rfupah mjpHr;rpailfpwhd;. vd;d nra;tnjd;W njupahky; gakilfpwhd;. J}gq;fhl;LtjpYk; VNjDk; jtW NeHe;Jtpl;lNjh> fHj;jiu gpupag;gLj;jhkypUe;Jtpl;NlNdh> vd;W fyq;Ffpwhd;. Gaj;NjhL epd;W nfhz;bUe;j rfupahit Nehf;fp: rfupahNt! gag;glhNj! vd;W NjtJ}jd; $wpaJk; rfupah rw;W epk;kjpailfpwhd;.

,e;jj; NjtJ}jd; ahH? ehd; Njtre;epjhdj;jpy; epw;fpw fhgpupNay; vd;gtd; vd;whd; (Y}f;.1:19). Ie;E}W Mz;LfSf;FKd; jhdpNaYf;Fj; juprdkspj;J rk;gtpf;fg; Nghfpwitfis mwptpj;jtd; ,e;j fhgpupNay; J}jd;jhd; (jhdp.8:9). fd;dp kupahSf;F fhl;rpaspj;jtDk; ,tNd (Y}f;.1:26).

MfNt fhgpupNay; vd;gtd; NjtDila jpl;lj;ij mwptpf;Fk; Kf;fpa NjtJ}jd;. vy;yh NjtJ}jHfSf;Fk; jiyikahdtd;> kjpg;G kpFe;jtd; nghWg;Gs;std;. mtidg;gw;wp rpy Fwpg;Gf;fis fhz;Nghk;.

1. mtDila ngaH: fhgpupNay;> ,jd; mHj;jk; fHj;jNu vd; ngydhdhtH my;yJ fHj;jUila J}jd; vdg;gLk;.

2. mtDila mjpfhu g+Htkhd epiy: fHj;jUila rKfj;jpy; epd;W mtUf;F Kf;fpakhd gzptpilfs; nra;jy;.

3. mtDila gzp: Njtdhy; g+kpf;F mDg;gg;gl;L mtUila thHj;ijia kdpjUf;Ff; $Wjy;.

4. mtDila epiy: gPlj;jpd; tyJ gf;fj;jpy; epd;W mjpfhuj;NjhL NgRjy;.

5. mtDila Neuk;: J}gq;fhl;Lk; Neuj;jpy; fhl;rpaspf;fpwhd;. aagf;jp epiwe;j ,Ujaj;jpw;F fhl;rpaspf;fpwhd;. ek;Kila ,Ujak; mikjyhf> Maj;jkhf ,Uf;Fk;NghJ Njtd; ek;NkhL NgRfpwhH. 

fHj;jH ,e;j Kf;fpa J}jd; %ykha; nra;jpia mDg;GfpwhH (Y}f;.1:13-17). vt;tpjkhd nra;jpia mDg;GfpwhH vd;W rw;W ftdpg;Nghk;.

 Kjyhtjhf> fHj;jH ek; n[gj;ijf; Nfl;L gjpyspf;fpwhH.

cd;Dila Ntz;Ly; Nfl;fg;gl;lJ vd;W fhgpupNay; $wpaJk; rfupah vj;jidaha; kfpo;r;rpailfpwhd;.

 ehk; n[gpf;Fk;NghJ ,jid Qhgfj;jpy; itj;Jf;nfhs;sNtz;Lk;. ekJ n[gq;fSf;F cldbahfg; gjpy; tutpy;iynad;wJk;> fHj;jH ekJ n[gq;fisf; Nfl;ftpy;iy vd;W epidg;gJ jtW. gjpy; tu jhkjpj;jhy; me;j ed;ikfs; ekf;F kWf;fg;gLfpd;wd vd;gJ mHj;jky;y. fHj;jUila rpj;jj;jpw;F Vw;w Ntisapy; ekf;F mitfs; fpilg;gJ ed;ikahapUf;Fk;.

,uz;lhtjhf> vyprngj;J xU Fkhuidg; ngw;nwLf;f ,Uf;fpwhs; vd;w nra;jp rfupahTf;Fk; vyprngj;Jf;Fk; mjpf kfpo;r;rpiaf; nfhLf;fpwJ. vyprngj;JTf;Fk; mjpf kfpo;r;rpiaf; nfhLf;fpwJ. md;dhisg; Nghd;W jdf;Fk; xU Fkhud; fpilf;fg;Nghfpwijnaz;zp Jjpf;fpwhs; (1.rhK.:27). fHj;jUila rpj;jg;gb n[gpg;gNj rpwe;jJ (Y}f;.22:42).

%d;whtjhf> <thf nfhLf;fg;gLfpw FkhuDf;F Nahthd; vd;W nahuplg;glNtz;Lk; vd;W mwptpj;jhd;. Nahthd; vd;why; fHj;jH fpUig epiwe;jtH vd;W nghUshFk;. vgpnua thHj;ijahfpa Nahfd;dhd; vd;w thHj;ijapypUe;J te;j ngaHjhd; Nahthd; vd;gjhFk;. ,jDila mHj;jk; fpUigaha; mUSfpw NaNfhthtpdhy; MrPHthjk; ngw;wtd; vd;gjhFk;. Mk;> Nahthd;> mtd; ngw;Nwhuhfpa rfupahTf;Fk; vyprngj;Jf;Fk; fHj;jH nfhLj;j ngUk; gupR> ,JNghyNt ngw;NwhuhapUf;fpw xt;nthUtUk; jq;fSf;Ff; nfhLf;fg;gl;bUf;Fk; rpW Foe;ijfs; fHj;juhy; mUsg;gl;l <T vd;gij epidj;J kfpo Ntz;Lk;.

,ytrkha; fpilf;fg;ngw;w Kj;Jf;fshfpa Foe;ijfis mtUila ehkj;jpw;F kfpikAz;lhf;Fk; gps;isfshf khw;WtJ ngw;NwhuJ flikahFk; (rq;.127:3).

ehd;fhtjhf> Nahthd; fHj;jUf;F Kd; ngupatdhapUg;ghd; vd;W J}jd; nrhd;dhd;. mNefH ,ijf; Nfl;lJk; Nahthd; IRtupaj;jpdhy; my;yJ ty;yikapdhy; nry;thf;F ngw;wtdhapUg;ghd; vd vz;Zfpd;wdH. xU kdpjd; ngupatd; vd;W miof;fg;gl Ntz;Lkhdhy; ngUk; gl;lhsj; jiytdhfNth my;yJ murpay; jiytdhfNth my;yJ rpwe;j tpisahl;L tPudhfNth ,Uf;f Ntz;Lk; vd;nwz;ZtJz;ly;yth? Mdhy; kf;fSila Gfo;r;rp> Muthuq;fs;> ahTk; khwf; $baitfs;. ePz;l ehl;fs; epiyj;J epw;gitay;y.

fHj;jupd; rpj;jj;jpw;F vw;wit khj;jpuNk epiyj;J epw;ff;$bait. gaDs;sit. ,q;F Mz;ltupd; rpj;jj;jpd;gb Nahthd; ngupatd; - cyfj;jpd; msTNfhypd;gbay;y.

Ie;jhtjhf> Nahthd; erNuad; vdg;gLthd; vd;Wk; J}jdhy; mwptpf;fg;gLfpwJ. ,jd; nghUs; jPq;Ff;F tpyfp tho;gtd;> gpupj;njLf;fg;gl;ltd; vd;gjhFk;.

erNuaHfs; vg;gb ,Ug;ghHfs; vd;gijg;gw;wp vz;zhfkk; Mwhk; mjpfhuj;jpy; $wg;gl;Ls;sJ.

fpwp];jtHfshapUf;fpw ehk;> ek;ikNa gpupag;gLj;jpf;nfhz;buhky;> fHj;jiug; gpupag;gLj;JfpwtHfshapUf;fNtz;Lk;. ek;Kila rpj;jj;jpw;F ,y;iy vd;W $wp Mz;ltUila rpj;jj;jpw;F Mk; vd;W mlq;fp elf;fNtz;Lk;.

Mwhtjhf> Nahthd; gpwf;Fk;NghNj gupRj;j Mtpapdhy; epug;gg;gl;bUg;ghd; vd;W J}jd; $wpdhd;.

Jd;khHf;fj;jpw;F VJthd kJghd ntwp nfhs;shky; Mtpapdhy; epiwe;J.... fHj;jiu kfpikg;gLj;j Ntz;Lk; vd;W vNgrpaH 5k; mjpfhuk; 18k; trdk; $WfpwJ.

mNefH kJghdj;jpdhy; ngyd; fpilf;fpwJ vd;W $WtJz;L. Mdhy; kJ ghdj;jpdhy; fpilf;Fk; ngyd; mopitf; nfhz;L tUk;. gupRj;jhtpapdhy; fpilf;Fk; ngyd; mopahikiaf; nfhz;L tUfpwJ. Nahthd; gupRj;jhtpahdtuhy; epug;gg;gl;L ngyDs;stdhapUe;jhd;.

Vohtjhf> fHj;jUf;fhf Copak; nra;ag; gpwe;j NahthDf;Ff; fpilj;j ed;ikfshtd.

m. mNef ,];uNtyiuf; fHj;jUf;F Neuhf top elj;Jthd;. ghtj;jpdhy; epiwe;J tho;e;J nfhz;bUe;j kf;fis fz;bj;JzHj;jp kde;jpUk;gr; nra;thd;.

M. fHj;jUf;F Kd; J}Jtdhfr; nry;thd;. ,uh[hthfpa ,NaRtpd; jsgjpaha; ,Ug;ghd;.

,. vypahitg;Nghd;W rf;jp gilj;jtdhf Mtpapdhy; tho;thd; (ky;.4:5-6).

<. Mz;ltUf;F topiar; nrt;it gz;Zthd;. ,NaR fpwp];J ,t;Tyfpy; tUKd; mtUf;fhf> mtiu Vw;Wf;nfhs;s kf;fis Maj;jg;gLj;Jthd;.

rfupahtpd; mtpRthrk;

fhgpupNay; J}jd; nrhd;d fhupaq;fs; eilngWk; vd;W rfupah ek;ghjgbapdhy;> ,it eilngw milahsk; vd;d vd;W Nfl;lhd;. jhDk; kidtpAk; taJ nrd;wtHfs; vd;w vz;zk; kdjpy; vOe;jJ. Mz;ltupd; thHj;ij cz;ik vd;nwz;zp kwe;jhd;.

Mk;> ,JNghd;w epiyikjhd; ek;kpy; fhzg;gLfpwJ.

Mgpufhk;> Mz;ltH nrhd;dijg; ngupJk; kjpj;jhd;. ek;gpdhd;. mtDf;F thf;F nfhLj;j Mz;ltH mjid epiwNtw;wpdhH (Nuh.4:13-22 thrpf;fTk;).

,q;F rfupah ek;gtpy;iy. vg;gb fHj;jH nrhd;dij epiwNtw;wg; NghfpwhH vd;gij mwpa tpUk;gpdhd;. MfNt> ,itfs; epiwNkWksTk; tha; NgRKbahjtdhf;fg;gl;lhd;.

ekf;Fs;spUf;Fk; mtpRthrj;jpd; kj;jpapy; fHj;jH MrPHthjq;fisj; juKbahJ. mtuhy; ek;Kila ngytPdj;jpy; ek;ikj; jhq;f KbAk;. ek;Kila Njhy;tpfis mtuhy; ntw;wpfshf;f KbAk;. ek;Kila md;G FiwTglhky; ghJfhf;f KbAk;. ek;Kila jtwhd jPHkhdq;fspypUe;J ek;ik tpyf;fp ed;ikahditfisj; juKbAk;. Mdhy; ehk; mtiu ek;ghky; mtpRthrpfshapUg;gjw;F mtH xUNghJk; Jiz epw;fkhl;lhH.

Mdhy;> vg;NghJ mtpRthrk; NkNyhq;fp epw;fpwNjh> mg;NghJ> Mz;ltNu! tpRthrj;jpNy cWjpaha; epiyj;jpUf;f cjtp nra;Ak; vd mtuplk; Nfl;Fk;NghJ mtH epr;rak; cjtp nra;thH. 2.jPNkhj;NjA 2:13y; $wg;gl;Ls;s gpufhuk; mtH kJ thf;Fj;jj;jq;fisnay;yhk; epiwNtw;WthH. mtH jkJ CopaHfisr; rPHgLj;jp jkJ jpl;lj;ijAk; rpj;jj;ijAk; epiwNtw;WfpwhH. ,itfis ek;ghj rfupah tPL jpUk;Gk;NghJ tha; Ngrhjtdhf nry;Yfpwd;. mLj;J te;j rpy khjq;fs; rfupahTf;Ff; fbdkhd khjq;fs;. Mdhy; fHj;jH thf;fspj;jgb vyprngj;J fHg;gKw;whs;.

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